Rihanna said "kisses don't lie," but who listens to what Rihanna has to say anymore?
Kisses used to mean something. First base wasn't a quick stop on the way to home plate; it was a destination in itself. Swapping saliva was the all-important denotation of true feelings, indicative of "love" or something like it. And then we turned fourteen.
Physical interaction these days has become depreciated. Definitions are hazy, and we tote mixed bags of perceptions on a regular basis. How jaded of Romeos and Juliets are we that a kiss no longer guarantees or means anything? Can we pull a 'Jesus' on butterflies, and resurrect those little rascals that used to flap wildly in our stomachs, at the command of a kiss? Or do we even want to? What's more important: the little things, or the bigger picture? If all roads lead to sex, why not take the shortcut and conserve gas? Have we lost all desire to take the scenic countryside route?
On another note, who are we performing for? When we adjust our actions within sexual relationships to fit within the mold society so conveniently has laid out for us, like that first day of school outfit the night before you begin the third grade, who is it for? If no one knew about what transpired between your satin sheets, would what you choose to do and not do really matter all that much? If a tree falls in the forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound? Translation: If you fuck someone you are attracted to, with no intentions of taking it further, and no one knew about it - did it happen?
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
Philosophy of Kisses & Trees In The Forest.
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6 comments:
A friend and I were just talking about the topic of just kissing. Does anybody even do it anymore without sex coming before or after the ordeal? Sadly, I think as we get older it's not as important as it once was
I had a "friend" that wanted me to come over JUST so we could kiss...and i mean i love kissing, i love the feeling, and i love somebody who is good at it. I usually wont bother with a boy if he doesnt kiss me(esp if he will ask for head -something i still have yet to do). But i was thinking that exact feeling with the butterflies and ish, is something i really havent felt in a long time and i so desperatley want it back. I can still manage to conjur it from the deep bottom of my boiling pot of memories; the first time i was alone with a boy. Sigh...
Kissing is done so casually now days... I still think it's really intimate. So if I've kissed someone the night I met them, they are already trouble. Things happen really fast after that first kiss.
And yes the tree makes a sound and the sex really happened.
noooooo I refuse to believe kissing doesn't mean anything anymore LOL... why? because I have a date tonight, and i've got *major* butterflies thinking he might kiss me when the mood is right! or maybe I'm just a romantic idiot. LOL
kissing means something if you've teased them with your presence enough to show them that nothing is guaranteed.
if the object of the game is to get to home plate, do the bases really mean anything but safe havens in between your destination?
kissing can't mean anything in a game. it only means something to someone that you really feel for.
i love this blog.
it sucks that its come down to the point were you cant kiss without it leading to something , or more so the dude thinking hes getting closer to scoring with you.
i remember em good ol days when i was young ..and kissing was the shit lol , with no intentions of anything happening.
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